# Good Friday: Life, Death, and Life Again
*2015-04-02*

> Bill Young reflects on the meaning of Good Friday, sharing a family prayer, activities, and the hope that Christ’s death is the beginning of new life.

## The Word of the Cross

We begin with the words of John 19:30: “It is finished.” Jesus bowed His head and gave up His spirit. This moment reminds us that our own lives contain pain, suffering, and death, but they also contain faith, hope, and love—even when darkness seems overwhelming.

## Bringing Children into the Liturgy

Take your children to church today. Even the youngest are moved by the solemnity of the Good Friday liturgy. Let them venerate the cross and feel that they are part of a great crowd united in the desire to embrace the cross and believe in Jesus.

## Family Discussion and Activity

After the service, sit with your children and talk about what they observed and what death means to them. Listen without fear and answer their questions. You might also share a simple family activity: ask each child to draw or write a short reflection on the crucifixion and what hope looks like after the cross.

## Fasting and Quiet Reflection

Good Friday calls us to fast: no meat, two small meals and one larger meal, and nothing between meals. Many families keep a quiet atmosphere after the liturgy, perhaps gathering for a modest fish fry with family and friends, reminiscent of an Irish wake.

## Prayer for the Faithful Departed

Lord Jesus, we thank You for dying for us and for showing that death is the beginning of new life in heaven. Bless those we love who have died, including our pets. Help us to tell them we love them, to live fully in the time we have on earth, and to become more like You. Amen.

*Good Friday invites us to recognize that Christ’s death is not an end, but the gateway to eternal life.*